Going to Poland has never felt like a typical vacation to me (i.e. new place, group tours, hotels, restaurants). I've been going since I was a little girl and it feels so familiar, like the somewhat musty smell when I open the door to Babcia (grandma) and Dziadek's (grandpa’s) building. A smell that instantly takes me back to being 2 years old and coming in from the monkey bars in the courtyard. Visiting Poland is about spending time with family, catching up and reminiscing. This time I was viewing Poland through the eyes of those experiencing it for the first time.
Two years ago when Matt and I came to Poland, the attention shifted to Matt; this time, to him and his parents. The collective energy was directed to showing Warszawa and the Polish culture to Matt's parents, which made me part guest/part host. Fortunately there was little work for me as the primary trip coordinator was my cousin Karolina, who did an impeccable job making sure everything was taken care of.
dinner at babcia & dziadek's
We spent the majority of our time in Warszawa - with just a quick trip south to Krakow and Zakopane (village at the foot of the Tatry Mountains). One trait of Poles is a pride in their country, and rightfully so. A lot has happened in/to Poland since...well, its existence. But people remain hard-working, courageous, friendly and optimistic. We saw a quote in the Warsaw Uprising Museum from Gregory MacDonald, former head of the BBC. He said about Poles “Your strength lies in the fact that at the worst of times you know how to preserve hope.” So true. As we spent time showing Matt's parents different parts of Warszawa and stuffing them with homemade Polish cuisine, I felt this pride and regained an appreciation for all the great things about my motherland :)
"stare miasto" - old town, warszawa
"palac kultury" - cultural palace. a "gift" from the soviets. generally hated by older generations for its symbolism, but finding a place among the younger varsovians
More than anything we did a LOT of walking. Our tour guides were my aunts and cousins; they have a history there, a story for every block, which brought the city alive for us. In addition to the must-sees, we walked around the neighborhood where my dad and aunts grew up, saw where they went to school, and we even had ice cream at the same shop where, as kids, my dad and his sisters feasted on 5 scoops each! We showed a bit more restraint...but maybe that's because we'd just come from eating at Babcia's :) Through this lens Warszawa seemed more vivid and alive than any city we'd explored using a guidebook.
Part of our goal for this trip was to really immerse ourselves into the culture of a place. I doubt we could do that more authentically than we did in Warszawa, though I had a bit of an advantage being Polish :) And Matt's practically a Pole as his vocabulary now includes bar conversations (
jeden vodka, prosze - one vodka, please), food conversations at Babcia's (I'm hungry, yes, delicious, very good, thank you, of course I'll have more), days of the week and counting to 15. We felt like true Varsovians (albeit ones without jobs or responsibilities). My cousin, Piotrek, lent us his apt, complete with a cell phone, car, and bikes. We ate dinner at my Babcia and Dziadek's and aunt's house, and went out with my cousins to the places locals go. We used the public transportation system pretty extensively (Warsaw has only one metro line, which took about 50 years to build; a second line is in progress for EuroCup 2012, which Poland is co-hosting with Ukraine). And I have to admit that, on more than one occasion, we road the tram "
na gape" (i.e. without a valid ticket.) When in Rome...
I used a map in Warszawa for the first time. So many street names are familiar to me: Marszalkowska, Chmielna, Jana Pawla II, Aleje Jerozolimskie. I generally know them in relation to Babcia and Dziadek's place, which I know in relation to Warszawa Centralna (main train station) and Palac Kultury (Cultral Palace). Not particularly helpful when navigating the city by bike as Matt and I did our last few days. Seeing all these familiar places layed out on a map was like puzzle pieces from all my trips put together.
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| crossing bridge; newly-built Euro2012 stadium in background |
One day we biked to Babica and Dziadek's for tea (and cake because really, there's no way you can go there and not eat SOMETHING). It was a fairly warm and sunny day but while there the sky quickly grew ominous, wind picked up and Babcia sent us packing to make sure we got home before the rain started. Too late - two minutes into our ride the skies opened up and we furiously pedaled home in hurricane-like conditions. I couldn't see, the rain hurt hitting our faces and we were completely drenched! Matt was loving every minute and randomly laughing like a crazy man. I was happy once we made it back to Piotrek's apartment. As if on cue, the rain stopped.
just a tad wet
One night, Karolina complimented my handwriting and said it was similar to Dziadek's. Funny enough, the prevoius week I was telling Matt's parents how precise Dziadek's handwriting is - perfectly straight as if he used a ruler; all letters are the same size. My Dad's is the same. I never considered that I shared similar handwriting to theirs till Karolina pointed it out. Such as small thing but it made me feel connected to my family. I thought of how life carries on through the generations, with little pieces of people always remaining in others. To me, our time in Poland felt like a brief stay at home.
Pictures from our 5-day trip to Krakow and Zakopane:
starting on our hike in Zakopane
crossing a stream during our hike in Zakopane
post-hike sampling of oscipek (smoked sheep cheese from the Tatry Mountains - delicious grilled and served with cranberries)
main square in Krakow
Wawel Castle & Cathedral in Krakow